At one point in my life, before my Bipolar Disorder kicked in, I use to be a fairly eloquent writer. Most people found me to be very intelligent and I was well educated. Now, I was in no means a "Shakespearean-style" writer, with pretty prose, nor a "Steven King-type" writer, using words that could captivate his "faithful readers", but at least I could write.
Graduating with 4 diplomas, with one being an A+ with distinction, would somewhat indicate that I could write intelligent and well formulated essays, independent studies, and assignments. I could prepare and deliver lengthy presentations to audiences, from 10-300, AND be in control and confident!
When my Bipolar Disorder surfaced, I was in tears, mortified, so very deflated, as public speaking was my passion and reading was my love (being a lifelong learner). In the beginning, I couldn't even pick up a book. When I looked at a page, it was like I was reading a new language. Crosswords? HA! Are you kidding me! I had lost my thought processing capabilities for simple things like reading and writing.
Demoralized, I resorted to word search puzzles. Now, they may seem easy for you, but for me, I had a game plan. I would study the page as a whole, just opening my mind, and miraculously words would appear before my eyes. Over time, when I fulfilled and mastered my personal obligation with this brain exercise, I tried another whack at reading, but now I COULD read, one paragraph at a time, AND it made sense!
Soon, I was reading "mind candy" books, just to relish the fact that I could once again read. Then I got hungry for knowledge about Bipolar Disorder; what causes it, treatments, biographies, memoirs, self-help books, you name it I read it and LEARN! If I am to have this disorder, I want to learn EVERYTHING!
Writing was still a major obstacle. Even while I am writing the material for my blog, it is on paper, double-spaced, using a pencil and eraser! I still have a real difficult time with "word processing" and "word finding". I find I'm grasping for the right words when I speak or write. So, I write down, in plain text, of what I want to say, leave it alone (as it will frustrate me to no end), and when I'm doing something mindless (like folding laundry), a better phrase or word will come to me. I drop everything, and head to my journal, and either erase or insert in one of blank spaces.
Since I have challenges now with my frontal lobe (the front portion of your brain for executive functioning), I lose my train of thought easy, requiring total silence, and found that I've turned into a "kinesthetic" learner (hands on) rather that my old visual/auditory learning styles. So typing a rough draft in a word document has "0" benefit for me; I just see a screen with words. Hey, my methods work for me! I've made progress!
I'm hoping, over time, you will also see an improvement in my writing skills and style. That's my hope :)
See you soon!
Laura Marchildon will blog honest and true posts about her real life experiences.